It has been said to never talk about religion or politics among friends. Have you ever asked yourself why? The answer is quite simple: the position the speaker assumes will be based on their subjective opinion, and will represent the position that best suits their needs. Let’s skip religion for this discussion and look at the current presidential campaign. When a politician is asked for their opinion on a topic that affects others, do you think any of the candidates are looking out for your best interests? Do you see any candidates praising or giving credit for any actions taken by the opposing candidates? In contrast, they will say anything to tarnish or destroy their opponent’s credibility and bolster their own.
Why is someone’s personal opinion so caustic in conversation? It all stems from fear: fear that someone else may be better than you, richer than you, smarter than you. This can all be reversed when we reawaken ourselves to the fact that every person you see in your life is actually you. Each person has taken a roll in your life to teach you something. It will be an earthly lesson, but with a spiritual meaning. Have you ever felt the pain within you when you were angry at someone else? You were angry at yourself and that is why it hurt. When you do something out of love for someone, you feel great because you are showing love to yourself. So the next time someone asks for your opinion, before you answer, consider how your answer will affect them and not just yourself.
Iron Guru 